My name is Oshra and I have a confession to make

My name is Oshra and I have a confession to make: I love Israel! I really do.

We have the most poetic language, we have city landscape as well as green meadows and yellow deserts. The weather here is phenomenal, it is never too hot or too cold. We have the beach and we have beautiful mountains. Our education system is one of the best in the world, we encourage great minds and thinking out of the box. Our health insurance is not that expensive, we have the ability to speak our minds and protest when necessary, and we do it non violently. Israel is a great country. I love it. I really do.

Don’t get me wrong though, it is not always easy for me to admit that. I don’t always agree with my country’s actions.
I am a pacifist. I have, what you might call, a romantic point of view to life. I choose to have this point of view! I choose to be a little naive, to believe that if people want peace they can make a difference. I don’t believe that violence is the answer. I do, however, know that there are many times that there is no other choice.

Non of us here actually wants war. We want to live our lives in peace, we want to open the newspaper and read articles about soccer or science or even ministers embarrassing sex tapes! Anything but war.

We don’t hate Arabs. We live with them, work with them, befriend them. It’s the media that makes it so nasty. It’s the same media that constantly portrays the pain and suffering of the people in Gaza, completely neglecting those poor people living in Israel, under a constant threat of terror.

Let me break it to you: BOTH SIDES SUFFER. War sucks, for both sides! We don’t enjoy this. We just want to live our lives in peace, drink our morning coffee, kick back and relax. Do you know how hard it is to relax around here? Every time you hear a supersonic boom you are sure your country is under attack. Every time you hear a motorcycle outside that sounds like a siren your heart drops a beat.

I am a graphic artist and illustrator. About a month ago, on the latest bomb attacks, I had a costumer from Be’er Sheva (southern Israel) asking me to not use the color red. ”Red Color” is the name of the alarm system in the south. Imagine a world without the color red! A world in which red is a color for passion and energy instead of terror and fear…

The bottom line is- we just want to live and let live. This is the voice of the real people in Israel.


Oshra Pahima-Shemesh

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Ett brev från Israel till svenskarna

Hej, mitt namn är Koby.
Jag är en helt vanlig israel. Jag är 36 år, gift och pappa till två små flickor: en som är tre år och en som är åtta månader..
Vi bor i Ashdod, en stad med 250 000 invånare som ligger bara 25 minuter med bil söder om Tel Aviv.
Ashdod ligger vid Medelhavets strand och har en underbar vit sandstrand. Vi älskar att åka till stranden, bada, dricka en kopp kaffe i något trendigt kafé, njuta av havsutsikten eller låta barnen leka på stranden.

Jag antar att några av er har hört en del om Israel och jag gissar att det ni har hört inte är så trevligt. Därför beslöt jag att berätta lite om mig själv och mitt liv, och på så vis kanske ge er ett annat perspektiv av mitt land och hur israeler lever.

Båda mina föräldrar kom till Israel från andra länder. Min pappa kommer från Iran och min mamma kommer från Ryssland. De träffades här, i Ashdod. De upplevde båda problem som nyanlända invandrare i ett nytt land och var tvungna att anpassa sig till en ny och främmande miljö. De har dock båda acklimatiserats ganska väl. Min mamma utbildade sig till gymnasielärare och min pappa har en byggnadsfirma.

Jag kommer ihåg att vi hade vänner från Gaza när jag var barn – de arabiska entreprenörer min pappa anlitade. De brukade komma hem till oss och vi brukade äta lunch tillsammans – min mamma tyckte alltid det var roligt när de berömde hennes mat. Vi brukade prata om arbete, och om växande barn och giftermål och vi brukade skratta ihop.
Jag kommer ihåg vägen från Gaza till Ashdod. Varje morgon kom tusentals bilar från Gaza, fullpackade med så många människor som ryms i en Peugeot 404, som kom till Israel för att börja dagens arbete. På kvällen åkte de alla tillbaka. På lördagarna brukade min pappa och vår granne köra till Gaza för att handla mat: duvor, räkor och bondbönor. Vår granne brukade laga fantastiska rätter av detta. Dessa var goda tider.

Sen startade intifadan. Araber attackerade israeler överallt. Det var inte längre tryggt att åka till Gaza och gränsen var stängd. Inga araber kom till Israel. 1994 träffades vi igen under en kort tid efter fredsförhandlingarna, men sen började självmordsbombningarna i Israels städer och araberna fick inte längre komma in i Israel. Vi höll kontakten med våra vänner i Gaza under en tid. Vi pratade i telefon och hoppades på bättre dagar. Men det blev inte bättre. Alla band med Gaza bröts.

Den 30 januari 2001 började araberna skjuta raketer mot befolkade samhällen i Israel (kibbutzer och jordbrukskollektiv). Den 6 april 2001 avfyrades den första raketen mot en israelisk stad – Ashdod, som är den stad som ligger närmast Gaza. Vi trodde det var ett misstag, en engångsföreteelse. Men så var det inte. De israeliska samhällena runt Gaza blev skräckfyllda platser att bo, med dagliga attacker från araberna med raketer och granater. Människorna i dessa samhällen har 15 sekunder på sig att söka skydd efter det att sirenen hörs. Den 28 december 2008 avfyrades de första missilerna mot min hemstad.

Jag kommer väl ihåg den dagen. Det var en lördag. Jag och min bror hade åkt på en kort utflykt till de vackra omgivningarna runt Beit Shemesh. På vägen dit såg vi många krigsplan som lyfte från sina flygbaser. Det var konstigt eftersom det var en lördag. Lördagen är den judiska vilodagen och inget arbete av något slag eller några aktiviteter görs denna dag, i synnerhet inte militära aktiviteter. Jag slog på radion och hörde att Israel vidtog motåtgärder för 60 raketer som araberna hade avfyrat tidigare mot israeliska städer. Jag ringde min fru (hon var gravid i sjätte månaden) och sa till henne att be vår granne att omedelbart öppna husets skyddsrum. Jag hade mycket onda aningar.

Nittio minuter senare ringde min fru. Hon sa ”vi hörde nyss sirenen och raketer har träffat staden. Kom hem”. Jag var i chock. Några dagar senare träffade en raket en taklägenhet i en byggnad bara 30 meter från vårt hus.

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Från och med 2008 har Ashdod utsatts för otaliga raketattacker från Gaza. Mellan nionde och trettonde mars 2012 utsattes Israel för ett av de värsta raketattackerna någonsin. Araberna avfyrade mer än 300 missiler från Gaza in i Israel och många av dem träffade Ashdod. En missil träffade en butik som låg precis bakom vårt hus – den historien berättades till och med av BBC.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-middle-east-17343600

Det här är vi när vi springer under en raketattack:

Så här låter det:

Jag hoppas våra vänner i Gaza kommer ihåg oss och att de inte hatar oss. Jag vet inte vad de lär sina barn och barnbarn, men jag hoppas att det inte är hat.
Sedan 2001 har mer än 12 000 raketer av olika slag avfyrats från Gaza mot israeliska städer. Varje gång sirenen hörs, har vi 45 sekunder på oss att ta skydd. Jag och min fru måste springa två våningar ner med vår 3-åring och vår bebis till skyddsrummet. Ibland hörs sirenen mitt i natten när vi ligger och sover. Men jämfört med andra har vi det bra – israeler som bor närmare Gaza har bara 15 sekunder på sig.

Min 3-åriga dotter är traumatiserad. Hon skakar i mina armar varje gång sirenen hörs. Hon kramar mig hårt och vill inte släppa taget på mycket länge. Hon frågar mig: ”Pappa, varför kommer sirenen till oss?”. Vad ska man svara sitt barn när hon frågar detta? Att araberna hatar oss och vill att vi ska dö? Hur kan jag förklara detta för ett litet barn?
Nej, vi lär inte våra barn att hata. Vi lär dem hopp, kärlek och respekt.
I synnerhet i dessa tider, säger vi till vår dotter att det är ok att vara rädd. Vi är också rädda. Vi berättar för henne att så länge vi följer säkerhetsreglerna kommer vi att klara oss. Det är det hela. När hon blir större kommer hon själv att besluta hur hon ska bedöma den situation vi lever i.

Jag är en helt vanlig israel. Det här är min berättelse. Om ni inte har hört det på nyheterna ska ni inte tro att det inte hände. Det är de som rapporterar nyheterna som hindrade er från att få veta.

Med vänlig hälsning,

Koby Shamsian

Ashdod, Israel.

Översättning: Ingrid Olsson
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Yossi from Jerusalem

My Israeli story.
Hey, my name is Yossi, from Jerusalem, Israel.
I’m 23 and working for an Israeli company in The Netherlands.
I want to tell you about a short period in my life, my puberty.

As you know, or don’t know, Israel used to suffer a lot from bomb attacks, for a long period. This was reflected as bombs in buses, suicide bombers in restaurants, shopping centers and anywhere else.
That time was during my high-school period. As a teenager I was afraid of going by bus to school, which forced me to go two hours earlier, with my mom, or to walk two times a day 7 km back and forth.
There are few things that I will keep in my head for years.

First, 22 April 2004 – a suicide bomber on line-bus 14 in Jerusalem. A class-mate of mine was on her way to school with a few other students. After a few minutes’ ride, the bus was bombed by a suicide bomber. As you can imagine, it was a black morning for me and for the rest of the school. My class mate was severely injured in her leg, luckily the nowadays Mayor of Jerusalem was in the area and he saved her life. She was hospitalized for six months. One student from my school died on this bus attack – an 18-year-old student.

Second, Sukkot (Jewish holiday) evening, barely remember the date details. I woke up with a great bomb sound under my house, I looked up from the window and all I saw was black fog of smoke. It was a car bomb on my building’s parking. Thank god the terrorist was afraid to leave it somewhere else; he just left the car in a non-public place, no one was hurt.

There are few more things to tell, but let’s be a bit positive and keep on telling good things.
As a solder in the IDF I used to practice at the Israeli-Palestinian Checkpoints near the West Bank. I spoke to thousands of Palestinians every day, I always kept in mind the fact that I’m there because anyone of them can be the next terrorist who want to be a “Shahid”, but I always respected them as if they were my parents.
I heard many of them, complaining about the way of living under the Palestinian government, as well as they complained about the checkpoints of the Israeli army and the fact that they need to go through the checkpoint every day.

But most, I remember one old man who lives in Gaza. It was Friday afternoon, I was at the checkpoint between Ramallah’s settlements and Modi’in (30 km from Jerusalem). An old man came to the checkpoint without the special permission to go to Israel from the West Bank. He told me that he was in Jordan for an operation and now he is willing to go back to his family in Gaza. At that time of the day, the office of the permissions was already closed; he couldn’t get the permission, which means he couldn’t get to his family. As the commander of the checkpoint, I made a few phone calls to the head of the permissions office in attempt to get him the permission. Eventually, I was able to give him the permission. The thing that I remember perfectly was his final sentence: “I wish for myself that Israel will win and we all live under the Israeli government”.
I can just tell you, dear Swedish people, there are two sides of the coin. There are good and bad things. You just need to be aware of this fact. Israel is not evil, not even close to. It is just a small country which wants to live in peace in our one and only Jewish-land.

Tack!
Yossi.

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A letter from Israel to the Swedish people

Hi, my name is Koby.

I am just a normal every day Israeli. I am 36 years old, married and father to two little girls: a 3-year-old and an 8 months old baby.
We live in Ashdod, a 250,000 people town, just 25 minutes drive south of Tel Aviv.
Ashdod is located on the Mediterranean beach and has a wonderful white sand beach. On our spare time we love going to the beach, swim, have a coffee in a trendy coffee shop, enjoy the sea view or let the kids play on the beach.

I guess some of you heard something of Israel and my guess is that probably this something is not so nice. So I decided to just tell you a few things about me and my life, and maybe through my story, give you another perspective of my country and the life of Israelis.

My both parents came to Israel from different places. My father is from Iran and my mother from Russia. They met here, In Ashdod. They both encountered the difficulties of a newcomer to a new country and had to adjust to new and unfamiliar society. I guess they both acclimatized pretty well. My mom became a high school teacher, my dad a real estate entrepreneur.

As a kid, I remember we had friends from Gaza – The Arab Contractors that were working with my dad. They used to come to our house and we would have lunch together – my mom always enjoyed their compliments for her cooking. We would speak about work, and about growing children, weddings and laugh together.
I remember the road from Gaza to Ashdod, every morning thousands of cars from Gaza packed with as much people a Peugeot 404 can contain were coming into Israel to start they days work. In the evening, they were all going back. On Saturdays my father and our neighbor used to drive to Gaza, to buy food: pigeons, shrimp and broad bean. Our neighbor would make delicacy out of it. These were good days.

And then, the intifada started. Arabs were attacking Israelis everywhere. It was no longer safe to go to Gaza and the border was closed, no Arabs entered Israel. In 1994 with peace talks, we met again for a short time, but then Arabs started to commit suicide bombings in Israeli towns, and they were no longer allowed to enter Israel. We kept in touch with our friends in Gaza for some time. Talking on the telephone, hoping for better days. But these days never came. All ties with Gaza were severed.

On 30 Jan 2001 Arabs started firing mortar shells into Israeli populated communities (Kibbutz and Moshavs). On April 16, 2001, the first rocket was fired into an Israeli town – Sderot, the nearest Israeli town to Gaza. We thought it was just a mistake, a onetime event. But it wasn’t. The Israeli communities around Gaza became a scary place to live in, daily fired at by the Arabs with mortars and rockets. The people in these communities have 15 seconds to hide after a siren is heard. On December 28, 2008 first missiles were fired on my hometown.

I clearly remember that day. It was a Saturday. Me and my brother in law were taking a short trip to the beautiful hills of Beit Shemesh. On our way there we saw many war planes taking off from their air bases. Since it was Saturday, it was weird. Saturday is the Jewish religious day of rest. No work of any kind nor any activity is done on this day, all the more so army activity. I turned on the radio and heard the IAF is retaliating for 60 rockets fired earlier by the Arabs on Israeli towns. I called my wife (she was 6 months pregnant then) and told her to ask our neighbor to immediately open the building’s bomb shelter. I had a very bad feeling.
90 minutes later my wife called me, ”We just had a Siren heard and missiles hit our town, come back” she said. I was shocked. Few days later a missile hit a penthouse apartment in a building just 30 meters from our building.

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From 2008 Ashdod suffered numerous missile attacks from Gaza. Between March 9, 2012 and march 13 Israel suffered one of the worst missile attacks ever. Arabs launched more than 300 missiles from Gaza into Israel, many of them hit Ashdod. A Missile hit a store just behind my house, the story even reached the BBC.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-middle-east-17343600

This is us running during a missile attack:

This is how it sounds:

I hope our friends in Gaza remember us, that they do not hate us. I do not know what they are teaching their children and grandchildren but I want to hope it is not hate.
Since 2001, more than 12,000 rockets, Missiles & Mortar shells were fired from Gaza into Israeli cities. Every time a siren is heard, We have 45 Seconds to find shelter. Me and my wife have to take the baby and our little 3 years old girl and run for the bomb shelter 2 floors down. Sometimes we are fired at in the middle of the night, when we are sleeping. We are considered lucky – Israelis living closer to Gaza have 15 seconds only.
My 3-year-old has trauma. She shakes in my hands every time a siren is heard. She hugs me and wouldn’t let go for long time. She asks me: ”Dad, why is the siren coming down at us?”. What do you say to your baby when she asks this? That Arabs Hate us and want us dead? How can I explain it to a baby?
No we do not teach our children hate. We teach them hope and love and respect.
Especially in times like this, we tell our girl that it is ok to be afraid, we to afraid. We tell her that as long as we keep the safety provisions we’ll be ok. That’s it. When she will grow up she will decide on her own how to judge the situation we live in.

I am just a regular any day Israeli. This is my story. In case you didn’t hear it on national news, don’t think it didn’t happen. It’s the people telling the story prevented you from hearing it.

Yours truly

Koby Shamsian

Ashdod, Israel.

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